Daniel & Wei
Couple · EFT · Since Jan 2026
Daniel Rivera & Wei Chen
Daniel · he/him Wei · she/her
The cycle
Pursue–WithdrawDaniel
Pursues, protests
Wei
Withdraws, shuts down
Tracked across sessions, not buried in free text. The goal of the work is to help both partners see the cycle from the same side.
Relational timeline
Conflict cycles, ruptures and repairs, reflections and threads — carried forward from the last session.
Tracked the cycle in real time. Daniel named the fear under the protest; Wei stayed present instead of withdrawing.
— Dr. Okonkwo
Wei reached for Daniel's hand mid-conflict. First in-session repair that wasn't rejected.
Twogle Spark — notice and answer one bid for connection per day.
“I noticed I turn toward my phone when I feel criticized. I want to turn toward Daniel instead.”
— Wei
“The protest is loud because I'm scared she'll leave. Saying that out loud helped.”
— Daniel
Both partners describing the cycle from the same side for the first time.
As the clinician on this case you see all channels. Each client sees shared content plus only their own private channel.
Active homework
Daily bids for connection
DoneAppreciation quiz
Done