Skyler & Mateo
Couple · IBCT · Since Mar 2026
Skyler Thompson & Mateo Reyes
Skyler · they/them Mateo · he/him
The cycle
Now vs. LaterSkyler
Wants to talk it through now
Mateo
Needs time before talking
Tracked across sessions, not buried in free text. The goal of the work is to help both partners see the cycle from the same side.
Relational timeline
Conflict cycles, ruptures and repairs, reflections and threads — carried forward from the last session.
Unified detachment around the money conversation. Reframed “now vs. later” as a difference, not a flaw.
— Dr. Okonkwo
Mateo named appreciation for Skyler's pace instead of pathologizing it.
“I need a beat before I talk. That's not me avoiding — I'm getting ready.”
— Mateo
As the clinician on this case you see all channels. Each client sees shared content plus only their own private channel.
Active homework
Values card sort
Done